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Most men who want a girl, but can’t, tend to point the finger at women. I understand, it’s easy. Hell, I do the same thing when it comes to men. I’m sorry to tell you, but in the end it’s you.
No, it’s not that women are blind or don’t like Nice Guys – we have eyes. We know. But of course there is something that doesn’t stick to women very well. It can be something small: you open your mouth or yell at older women crossing the street.
You know, little things. But those things can be changed, and with a little work, you’ll be able to ditch the “why can’t i get a girlfriend” story and get some solid dates.
Are you wondering why you can’t have a girlfriend and what you can do to finally find a girlfriend?
In this article, I’ll show you why it’s so hard for you to have a girlfriend and give you a simple piece of advice you can implement right away to make getting a girlfriend even easier.
If you complain about not having a girlfriend, but spend your time not getting close to women, well, what do you want me to tell you truthfully? That one day a girl will come over and give you her hand in marriage? If you don’t try, well, this is your first problem.
Yes, and I want a young lady, but I can’t wait for that to happen, right? Exactly. I know you want this sexy girl with perfect breasts, a juicy ass, and a personality to die for.
There may be, I’m not saying no, but it’s a rare find. Why aren’t you looking for someone instead? You know, someone with flaws because you’re not the perfect gentleman.
It’s good to live with your parents, I mean, still alive. However, at some point, let’s say you are 30, you will want to diversify on your own.
Why? Because it is a sign of growth that women find very attractive … unless you are Italian, you can live with your parents until you die.
Rejection is part of life. You have probably been denied a job or college that you would like to study. This is also rejection. It has happened to you before, so being rejected by a woman isn’t much different.
But your mistake is to take it personally and allow it to stop you from talking to other women. This is the question. You have to take it like a bump and keep driving.
Being a good person is a good thing. It may sound silly, but women don’t want someone who is too cute.
We perceive them as weak. We want you to be kind, but we also want you to have the courage and be able to stand up for you and us. Kindness is good, but being picky isn’t.
When you talk to someone, do you find yourself thinking about how good your story is going so far? In reality, people won’t remember a story that isn’t about them.
You might think this is a good thing, but it leads to you being boring and the people around us becoming bored with your inability to have an honest conversation.
If you’re worried about looking stupid or saying something stupid, well, you’re missing out on talking to that cute blonde over there.
We are all aware of ourselves, so what? Will you let all the girls go through your hairline?
You can be the shy guy in your group of friends. Which isn’t a bad thing, but unless a girl is more aggressive, you probably won’t talk to her.
This is a problem. If you are shy, at least try to talk a little to get something.
Your problem may simply be that you are always on the market when you are on a date. It could be the arrest, believe me.
You need to have a balance between your work and your personal life, because no girl wants to be second to a cell phone.
Video games are fun, but you won’t find the love of your life playing WOW alone. Going out with your friends, it’s the only way to meet new people.
Go to parties at home, go to clubs, make an effort to go out and meet new people.
You have been hurt in the past, or you are inexperienced, so now you have built this giant wall.
If you want to have a girlfriend, you have to drop the barrier. Is it scary? Of course. But you have to do it if you want something real.
You want the house, the car, the fantastic job … I get that. But if you wait for these things to happen before you have a girlfriend, it won’t work. You can’t try to plan life as it happens.
If you go to a men’s-only gym, you probably won’t find the woman of your dreams there.
You have to go to some places where she will be the kind of woman you want. If you want someone athletic, go for walks, swim or take sports lessons.
You’re looking for the wrong kind of girl.
You have this picture of a dick, but in the end that’s not what you really need. Sit down and find out what you really want in a woman, then go out and find her.
Oh, you liked it. Do you really like it? You want that second date tomorrow and then you want me to meet her mother on Saturday. Wow … calm down there.
You want it all, but you want it too fast. You’re scaring her. You’re really scaring her. So turn the level down and go with the flow.
Yeah right, you have shit social skills. Maybe you’re just an idiot, but the question is, why would she spend an ounce of her time with you if you treat her like shit? Encourage me, guys.
You can’t have a girlfriend because she’s everyone’s fault but yours. Sure, it looks small, but it spills over into other areas of your life.
You have to take responsibility for yourself. Who wants to date a guy who blames everyone else?
Not a bad thing, I mean, unless you hate women … It’s something different.
I suggest therapy. This could simply mean that you have been hurt in the past and are now numb or not ready. But if you don’t care about women, that’s a good reason not to have a girlfriend.
If your only hobby is washing the car or looking in the mirror. Find a hobby. Read a book or watch a movie – do something you can talk about. If you are boring, no one will want to be with you.
Now I don’t want to hear you say “why can’t I have a girlfriend” anymore! Read the list, apply some elbow grease and find out what happens.
If you are trying to figure out why you can’t get a girlfriend, it is because you are not taking the steps that are needed in order to actually understand how to get women these days.
You need to stop and think about the facts that are at play here for what they really are.
Take a look through these tips and pointers and see how many of them apply to you.
Take action to change the attributes you need to in order to find the girl of your dreams. Open your mind and understand that there will be a bit of trial and error involved.
However, when all is said and done, you will overcome your personal obstacles and get the woman that you deserve.
Believe in yourself and the rest will follow!
Over the past 3 years I have read a lot of tips: – Get out more, do a hobby and go to a place where you can meet a lot of girls. – Practice talking to girls often and be more open. – Stop actively looking for a girl and live your life with passion. – Dress better, take care of yourself, take care of yourself.
A survey by the National Institute for Population and Social Security Research revealed that 61.4% of single men between the ages of 18 and 34 do not have a girlfriend and that 49% of single women of the same age group do not have a girlfriend.
But a shy guy isn’t attractive. This is because he himself will not make friends. Even if someone comes to him, he will surely respond to him, but in a particular way that is not really intended by the person.
A guy who has never had a girlfriend before isn’t necessarily “bad” to girls. He may have personal problems and insecurities or have focused on other things in his girlfriendless years, but there is also a good chance that he has had many women in his life as friends.